Remembering Andres Escobar, 20 years on

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Maria Ester Escobar was in Los Angeles on that fateful day, 2 July 1994, and will never
forget the moment she found out the news. It was in the small hours of the morning, the
sort of time when the telephone ringing is often synonymous with an emergency.
She took a while to pick up and had a lump in her throat by the time she did so. On the
other end of the line was Colombia's veteran midfielder Gabriel Barrabás Gomez and, his
voice trembling, he confirmed her worst fears: "Maria, something terrible has happened.
Andres… Andres has been killed."

For the football world, Andres was a talented defender who had impressed for Medellin side
Atletico Nacional and the Colombian national team. But for Maria Ester and the rest of the
Escobar family, the 27-year-old was much more than that: "He was our little brother, our
pride and joy," she tells FIFA.com in Rio de Janeiro, an unmistakable twinge of nostalgia
in her tone.


The pain has not faded, despite the 20 years that have been and gone since Escobar was shot
six times outside a bar in Medellin, where he had been insulted and accosted by his fellow
countrymen as a result of his own goal at USA 1994. "Sometimes I think it'd be better if
people didn't remember Andres every day, because it's really painful. But he left a mark,
so it's normal," adds Jose, another of the former centre-half's siblings.
FIFA's invitation triggered all sorts of conflicting emotions among the members of the
family who have come to Brazil to watch this summer's tournament. "Especially because of
the way the World Cup kicked off, with an own goal [by Brazil's Marcelo versus Croatia],"

Maria Ester notes.
"That brought back very sad, distressing memories, but it helped hammer home that it's part
and parcel of the game, that these things happen all the time. We're really happy to be
here and to have the chance to share in the joy that football can bring, along with
everyone else who is here."

Life doesn't stop here
The Escobars didn't turn their backs on football following Andres's murder. Far from it:
they are attending each of Colombia's matches at the 2014 FIFA World Cup Brazil™ sporting a
Cafeteros kit with the number two and their surname on the back. That is because, just like
Andres poignantly wrote in a piece for the newspaper El Tiempo after the country crashed
out of USA 94, just five days before his death: "Life doesn't stop here".
Unwittingly, this message would help spur on his family to rebuild their lives after the
murder. "Twenty years is a long time and it's really upsetting to think about, but I prefer
to thank God for having given us the chance to have him with us for 27 years, for lending
him to us. His life was cut short, but he did important things in that time," states Maria
Ester, visibly moved, going on to express her relief at being outside Colombia for this
most emotional of occasions.

"I wanted to escape Medellin, because there Andres's death will be talked about in all the
news programmes and papers and it would be very tough. I'd rather spend it [the anniversary
of the murder] here, with the family, and then hold a memorial service when we go back
home."

As these words make clear, the events of 1994 have not been forgotten in Colombia, although
paradoxically there is also a mood of optimism in the air. This is because the current
Cafeteros squad, which includes Escobar's former team-mates Faryd Mondragon and Mario
Yepes, has broken new ground by reaching the World Cup quarter-finals for the first time.
"Andres is with them and the rest of the team in spirit," stress the siblings, before
concluding by expressing their hope that the memory of their brother's death can be a force
for good: "People should enjoy football with passion, but never forgetting it's a game.
[What happened to Andres] should serve as a cautionary tale: there is no place for
violence. Football should unite the country around a message of peace and love."

culled from www.fifa.com